The Mirror
Today is father’s Day and since my dad asked me not to buy him anything I thought I would write him a special thank you message…
When I was little, my dad would take us to Wendy’s to get a frosty after my mom yelled at him to not give us sweets before we got home. He would freeze chocolate milk till it was like a slushy. He would give us donuts on Friday if we made our beds for the week. He would get big sixty cookies the day before we ran out to make sure we always had cookies to eat at night. In high school during car pool, he would always stop at Taste Donuts and got everyone what they wanted to eat for the ride. Thanks Dad!
My father never missed a game I played unless one of my brothers was playing at the same time. In fact, he did not just go to the games but also volunteered to coach the teams most of the time, whether it was school or playground. He never pushed me very hard on any sports but told me I could never quit once I started playing on a team. He was always there to congratulate me after a win and hug me after a loss. He never lectured to me about what I did wrong or what I needed to work on, but if I asked he would give me some pointers. Thanks Dad!
My father taught me how to play golf when I was little and Always let me come along when he played. He taught me about honesty and integrity with the game as I walk aside him through the course. In high school, I played all the time and realized playing golf is not just a game but a get away from all the problems in your life. Golf is a humbling game and a game that takes patience and concentration. When you cheat, you cheat yourself, and the only person you can beat is yourself. I have translated a lot from golf to life and it has made me a better person because of it. Thanks Dad!
My dad always corrected my brothers and I with the same talk, " Why are you guys fighting? You are brothers, and you are suppose to love each other. You know I would have loved to have a brother. You guys are suppose to be best friends." He was right and though we always laughed about it, now my brother and I are closer than ever and we are best friends. Thanks Dad!
My dad use to tell me, "When you look in the mirror. You see a man staring back at you." Though it may sound clique, every morning I look in the mirror and strive to see the man I want to be staring back at me. See my dad never had to yell at me or punish me because the worst thing that could ever happen to me is to see disappointment from my dad. He never hit me or screamed at me, because his look of disappointment was worse than any punishment from any court in America. I idealize my dad and the greatest complement anyone could give me is "Wow you are just like your dad." He didn’t need to ask me to be good, or ask me to make good grades or ask me to do the right thing because I wanted to do those things so he would be proud of me. What I strive for the most is to have someone ask him, " You must be very proud of your son." I know the answer because there has not been a time when he has not told me he was proud of me, but sometimes I would like other people to say it for him. Thanks Dad!
During the summers in New Orleans, the heat can average in the upper 90’s with heat index into the 100’s but that never stopped my dad from going to work. After working with him during the summers, I appreciated him even more for what he goes through. He does it all to make sure I get a good education. He taught me about hard work, dedication, and the value of a dollar. He taught me not just about becoming a man but making a living. He taught me how to take care of a family. He taught me to do whatever it took to make sure my family is feed, protected, and educated. He taught me all this without saying one word and leading by example. I look into the mirror today and hope one day I can see what my father sees everyday when he looks into the mirror. Thanks Dad for being there when I need you, and teaching me on how to become the man I am today. Thanks Dad!
Happy Fathers Day!